How to Flirt With A Girl Over Text
There's A Right Way, and Definitely
A Wrong Way, To Flirting With
A Girl Over Text Messaging.
Learn How To Flirt With A Girl
Over Text...
...The Right Way.
The flirting and texting principles we share below have helped many of our readers succeed at flirting with girls via text messaging…even the guys who hated text messaging learned to see it as a great way to flirt with girls!
Hello,
If this is your first time at this site, I’d like to welcome you. My name is Michael Casey, and I run the Attract Women Fast newsletter. Over the past few years, I’ve had a passion for helping other guys attract women.
I’ve been sharing good information with guys that covers almost all aspects of dating…including flirting via text. Heck, I even have a free report, titled How To Flirt With Women, and Have Her Love You For It, that goes into some key dating tips for men.
In fact, the text flirting and sms dating techniques that I’ll reveal below really come from my report, so if you find that you enjoy the following flirting tips, feel free to sign up for my free report and newsletter below.
2 Foundational Principles For Learning How To
Flirt With A Girl Over Text
Okay, so before we get into the tips and techniques that actually deal with how to text flirt, it’s important that we share a couple of core ideas with you. These are principles that I talk about in my newsletter:
Principle #1: You want to avoid being the “nice guy”. No, you don’t have to be a “bad guy” or an a-hole, but guys who come off as too nice don’t seem to attract women as well as they could. I used to make this mistake a lot, and have come to learn that women have the idea that nice guys will shy away from a confrontation, and not stick up for her if the situation occurs.
Of course, this isn’t 100% logical, but hey…it’s women were dealing with here.
Principle #2: You want to project some sort of high value or social value. Notice I didn’t say that you had to have value or social value, although it is great to have. You want to project yourself as someone who’s time is valuable, and doesn’t have and endless amount of time to reply to every flirting request. I’ll expand on this below.
I share more of these principles in my newsletter, but these 2 are good for now.
Next, the meat of this article…
The Top 3 Mistakes Guys Make When Flirting With
Girls Over Text Messaging
I said that there’s a wrong way, and a right way, to flirt with a girl via text:
Text Messaging Mistake #1: Not engaging her curiosity
Mistake: “Been thinking of you, had a fun time yesterday…I hope you had fun, too.”
Right way: “Been thinking of you”
In the mistake example, you can see that it doesn’t really generate much curiosity, because you told her everything (granted, it’d also be a long text message, but guys do still get carried away and make this mistake).
In the correct example, it’s easy to see that the girl will want to know more about what you’ve been thinking, or exactly what you’ve been thinking about her. It’ll also, help prevent you from coming off as too nice.
She’ll probably want to reply back, prompting you for more details. That’s where you have to avoid making the next mistake…
Text Message Mistake #2: Not Timing Your Text Messages
Okay, so you’re doing something, and you notice that your phone is vibrating: you just got a text message from her.
Here’s the question:
How long do you wait before you text back?
Wrong answer: Reply right away.
Right answer: Wait at least 5 minutes.
Replying right away, every single time she sends you a text message, makes it look like you’re needy. Waiting at least 5 minutes shows that you’re more in control of the dialogue, creates anticipation, and gives you time to think of a good reply.
And that’s another mistake: guys sometimes reply too fast (instantly) without thinking of a good response.
Hopefully, this article has given you some tips you can use to formulate great responses that make her want to eventually see you.
Page 22 to 25 of my report, How To Flirt With Women, And Have Her Love You For It, talks about
text message flirting tips. I’m going to let you have it for free, when you sign up to my Attract Women Fast newsletter.
Text Flirting Mistake #3: Not Creating Feelings
Mistake: Not using words that appeal to emotions.
This one’s a bit difficult to explain, but basically, you want to give her enough detail to create an image she can relate to. My free report does a better job at how to flirt with a girl over text.
Here’s a great video I found for you, that gives you some great text flirting tips:
So, I hope you’ve enjoyed the time and effort I put into this article, and that you’ve learned some great tips that showed you how to flirt with a girl over text.
